I know at times it gets too hard
To carry yourself with all the burden on your shoulder
Seeing all you have slipping away from your hand is painful
But in all those situations you must not lose your integrity and must not lose yourself
No matter what, you love, you care and you are kind to everyone for that’s who you are
Remember, love is always about giving
Spread love, kindness and keep smiling
Your smile is beautiful and you are even more!
Human mind is very complex machine. It constantly updates the thinking pattern and neurone pattern with time and experiences. You must understand it that everything happens inside mind, its all state of mind.
We ponder upon silliest things in life and suffer but we have never bothered to think about how mind actually thinks, think about it. Whatever you are feeling now; happy, sad, intrigued, bored, just think why is it happening you’ll observe that its just state of mind. Happiness is nothing but state of mind so are all the positive and negative emotions you experience.
So, when you are feeling happy and satisfied, you’re blessed, enjoy it. But when you’re experiencing something negative and it’s disturbing you then remind yourself that that’s just state of mind and you can always change it.
Instead of dwelling more on that unfortunate and uncomfortable incidents again and again think about some thing about good which makes you smile and feel good about yourself. Look for positivity inside everything. Like i mentioned earlier it’s all mind game if you look onto something expecting to get something good and positive out of it then undoubtedly you’ll get what you are looking for. This is nature’s rule, people refer it as “law of attraction” which states you get what you look for. Think positive even in most worst situations and you’ll get something good out of it, thousands of successful men and women have tried and tested this formula according to “the secret”.
At times people might share with you things that might hurt you or disturb you or you yourself get to know about something about them which is disturbing for you. Your challenge at those times is to control your mind and let not it overthink. Rather, you should think that “sharing is caring” and sharing itself is positive thing and if someone is sharing something with you how can it contain negativity.
With positively changed thinking pattern you’ll surely start to embrace the positivity and find good in situations which apparently look so horrible and worse.
~peace
You know it very well that no one can hurt you without your consent. You do, right?
Then why you keep complaining about circumstances you face in life? Question yourself at every step and with every breath you take. Why the things are the way they are? Why this and why not that?
It’s all you! It’s your choices! You have to admit this fact and embrace it that your present is based on the decisions you took yesterday or before that.
Make your choices wisely because you and only you will face it eventually.
Stop dreaming and start living yourself a real life. Punch and pinch yourself if you need to but with every second you need to make yourself realise that you’re living a life and it’s your responsibility to make it worth living for you first of all and then your loved ones. Let gone be bygones.
~peace
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