We all come across people who complain much about their life. Their conversations start and end with how miserable their life is and how dissatisfied they are with their life. They always see themselves surrounded by never ending problems. They are so complaining in nature that at times when happiness come to them they don’t even celebrate it with zeal as they think happiness is followed by sorrow. They take those precious moments for granted. All they do is to worry, worry and worry.

You must have heard of the quote Happiness is a state of mind and happiness comes from within. Same goes with its opposite i.e sadness and sorrow, it is also state of mind and comes from within, its all in your mind. That means you are in control of how you feel, it is you and only you who decides if you are to be happy or sad.

Remember, every hardship and problem you face is an opportunity and a chance to improve yourself. Always take out positive and see see bright prospective in every unfortunate situation, there is always window that lets light rays to pass through. If you are wounded, let light enter you through that wound.

Once a shoe company owner sent his two employees to remote area of Africa to research about market place. They both came back but with very different results. One of them was very disappointed, he reported that no one there wears shoes so there is no place for shoe industry. Contrary to it, the other one was very excited and happy to share his findings, he reported; there isn’t any shoe company there and no one wears shoe so their company can be the first one to provide and introduce shoes and they have big opportunity to boost their revenue. Both those employees faced same circumstances yet how they take results out of it teaches us how we should respond to and carry out different incidents which we encounter on daily basis.

Its not necessary that you are the only one who is going through whatever you are going through. There were hundreds before you who had the same calamities and God forbid there will be hundreds more in future who will face same things. Being human its your responsibility that no one else suffer like you did so take your sufferings and setbacks as an opportunity to improve yours and others life.

Peace