Besties Write

The haphazardness and hurriedness in everyone’s life, creating unnecessary standards. Why it has become so hard to just do the right thing Why are we trapped; In prison, Of other’s happiness, thinking and standards ; Losing our originality But Hey! Be You and do things being you YOU ARE YOU AND THAT’S YOUR POWER!

There lives a person inside me, the real me

I never listened to him when it came to you

Kocked him down and turned back on him every time for every wrong reason

But he is the real me, the stuburn, never left me alone and stood by me all the time

I know no one can harm me or hurt me, I’m the one one who asks for it

I’m the one who compromises on even wrong things and keep myself letting down in my own sight

Even though I knocked real me every time but I’m glad I killed him

Tonight, when I am again going through tough time, yes I know I made it hard for myself, he is again here infront of me

Alerting me, trying to open my eyes

Dear me, I want to hug you for everything, for staying here all the time

Dear me, listen! It’s not that I don’t see things, it’s just that I was convinced that I was meant to get hurt

I believed that I deserves this beacuse of my mistakes but I know, I know no mistake is big enough not to be forgiven

But dear me, despite all of the disappointments one thing I kept with me all the time, hate for lie

Lie of evey and any kind, and yes fakeness is the biggest lie!

Keep faking and lieing and watch me fading out like never existed

As of tonight, when I write this I am not hurt, I’m numb but don’t know why I’m lighten up

And now You! Hey! Yes, you!

Congratulations! You did great job, finally pushing me back to real me! I’ll now again be who I’m and live my own, smiling, giggling and laughing.

You must have come across people in your life who are so complaing. They will always start their conversation with how dissatisfied they are with their life and how miserable it’s going on. They see problems in every step of their life. At times when happiness come to them they just take it for granted and don’t celebrate at all or celebrate it half hearted. All they know is to worry, worry and worry.

You must know that all these feelings of joy and sorrow are within yourself. It is you who is in control of how and what you feel about any situation.

I was waiting outside the multipurpose hall of college with friend. A tall and tough guy in uniform comes to us and hugs my friend. I too hugged him, he had wide smile on his face had very pleasent personality. While we were waiting for exam to be taken, he was talking about his friendship with my friend and generally the importance of good relationship with people and how one can get his work done in public offices.

Kuch dena aur kuch lena parta hai yahan – its all about give and take

The least you can give someone is a big smile and a hope. Its the fact that you can’t always make people happy but you can atleast give them hope and glad tidings.

Insan dil aur dimagh se bara hota hai. Logun ko muskurahat aur umeed dou. Tabidari dikhao.

The most important

Hamesha fair raho log wesy he izzat krny lgengy apki. Agr aap sachy hein aur fair hein tou aap mai ek taqat ati hai.

We all come across people who complain much about their life. Their conversations start and end with how miserable their life is and how dissatisfied they are with their life. They always see themselves surrounded by never ending problems. They are so complaining in nature that at times when happiness come to them they don’t even celebrate it with zeal as they think happiness is followed by sorrow. They take those precious moments for granted. All they do is to worry, worry and worry.

You must have heard of the quote Happiness is a state of mind and happiness comes from within. Same goes with its opposite i.e sadness and sorrow, it is also state of mind and comes from within, its all in your mind. That means you are in control of how you feel, it is you and only you who decides if you are to be happy or sad.

Remember, every hardship and problem you face is an opportunity and a chance to improve yourself. Always take out positive and see see bright prospective in every unfortunate situation, there is always window that lets light rays to pass through. If you are wounded, let light enter you through that wound.

Once a shoe company owner sent his two employees to remote area of Africa to research about market place. They both came back but with very different results. One of them was very disappointed, he reported that no one there wears shoes so there is no place for shoe industry. Contrary to it, the other one was very excited and happy to share his findings, he reported; there isn’t any shoe company there and no one wears shoe so their company can be the first one to provide and introduce shoes and they have big opportunity to boost their revenue. Both those employees faced same circumstances yet how they take results out of it teaches us how we should respond to and carry out different incidents which we encounter on daily basis.

Its not necessary that you are the only one who is going through whatever you are going through. There were hundreds before you who had the same calamities and God forbid there will be hundreds more in future who will face same things. Being human its your responsibility that no one else suffer like you did so take your sufferings and setbacks as an opportunity to improve yours and others life.

Peace

Many a time you want something new and good from this life. You are tired of getting hurt. But even though you want to move forward in life, you may have one foot on the break. In order to set yourself free, you must learn to let go. Release the hurt and fear. Stop entertaining your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from new life.

Great things happen when you take bold decisions and letting go of anything is one of them. Don’t let your past to ruin your present and future. Here, we will share few things which might help you to move forward in your life.

Love yourself

You want others to love you? Well, we all want that. For that you first need to love yourself and embrace whosoever and what so ever you are. People value you when you start valuing yourself and your time. No one is worth of hurting yourself, if they were they wouldn’t let it happen in the first place. And believe me you know exactly when are you hurting yourself consciously and compromising your self esteem. Hurting yourself might help you temporarily but isn’t the solution. Self hurt is actually a trap to remain in a cycle of pain and suffering, image given below shows the cycle.

Stop Blaming Yourself

Stop blaming yourself for everything that happens in yourself. There isn’t no doubt that your current life is result of your previous decisions and choices but this notion is not true all the time. You must accept this fact and reality that sometimes things aren’t in your control. But the good news there is one thing that you have control over even in such unfortunate situation and that is Your mind, your thoughts. Learn to control your mind and thoughts, most of us fail here. I know its very hard to control mind and thoughts but believe me, one who conquers his thoughts conquers world.

There is this law goes by called universal law of attraction which states what ever you put out in universe comes back to you i.e. if you keep thinking positively, positive things start to happen in your life and vice versa. So, stop blaming yourself and think only positive even in worst situation . Spread positive vibes in universe as much as you can because that’s what you are going to get back.

You might be thinking how thinking positive can solve your problem. Yes, you are right, this might necessarily solve your problem but it will surely give you courage and motivation to deal with negative and unwanted situations and that’s what we are talking about here i.e not letting pain holding you back from moving on in life.

~ Peace